Finding out that a girlfriend is cheating on you can be a
sickening shock. There is so much press about men cheating on women, the
fact that women sometimes cheat on men is unheard of. If you suspect
that your girlfriend is being unfaithful, look for a combination of
tell-tale signs and clues. However, keep in mind that there is no more
definitive sign of cheating other than catching your girlfriend in the
act.
She pays increased attention to her appearance
Women involved in new relationships often become preoccupied with
their looks. According to AskMen.com, it is a sign that your girlfriend
is cheating when she suddenly changes hairstyles, starts wearing a new
perfume, buys new clothes (particularly lingerie) and starts working out
more at the gym. Assuming that she hasn’t started a new job or had some
other big change in her life, take these changes as signs.
She engages in secretive behavoir
Cheating girlfriends often become very guarded and cagey. Dr. Reena
Sommer, a divorce and affair consultant and author of the book “The
Anatomy of An Affair,” observes that when cheating mates are working on a
computer, they are often quick to close or change a program window
whenever you approach. Similarly, Dr. Robert Huizenga, an infidelity
coach quoted in an article on Womansdivorce.com, says that a cheating
girlfriend may begin to delete emails from her email inbox, where before
she let them accumulate. A cheating girlfriend may suddenly start
taking her ringing cell phone into another room before answering it, and
then delete the caller ID number once she’s finished the call.
She becomes vague about her whereabouts
Dr. Sommer notes that it is common for unfaithful mates to be evasive
about their whereabouts and activities. If your girlfriend suddenly has
difficulty giving a straight answer about where she was or what she was
doing during the day, it may be a sign that she’s cheating on you.
She frequently talks about a certain new male friend
Sometimes a friend is just a friend, but if your girlfriend speaks of
one new male friend more than any other, it may be that she is having
an affair with him. CatchingThemCheat.com notes that even if this
friendship is something she admits to openly, it is still a relationship
of which you should be wary. You should be particularly suspicious if
you never met this friend. AskMen.com warns you to be concerned if she
suddenly never mentions the friend again after talking about him
constantly.
She is increasingly argumentative and irritable
Cheating girlfriends may become highly argumentative, nit-picky and
defensive. CatchingThemCheat.com warns that a girlfriend who starts
arguing over little things or nothing may suggest that she is both
cheating and looking for a way out of your relationship.
She is suddenly less interested in you
If your girlfriend seems to no longer care about spending time with
you, or is less interested in your appearance, health and general
well-being, it could be a sign of unfaithfulness. AskMen.com notes that
cheating girlfriends often become less critical of their men, having
found someone who does not have the same habits and qualities.
She is disinterested in sex
The amount of sex a couple has may decrease for many reasons,
including busy schedules, depression, stress, and lack of novelty.
However, infidelity may also be a major factor. SignsOfACheater.com
observes that because emotional attachment is key to many women in their
sexual relationships, some cheating girlfriends may exhibit less desire
for their boyfriends because they feel emotionally removed from them.
She has started working lots of overtime
A classic sign of infidelity is when your girlfriend starts working
more–a lot more. Dr. Sommer notes that this suspicious change in work
schedule can manifest itself in different ways: leaving the house
earlier to go to work; coming home later; or claiming to have many
business dinners. But take note: is there a pattern to these extra
working hours? Every Tuesday and Thursday, for example? If so, that may
be a sign that something is wrong. Keep in mind that if the job is new
or she has recently received a promotion, there is no need to
immediately suspect that she is cheating.
She is less affectionate with you
Consider whether your girlfriend has stopped calling you by a special
nickname, is less inclined to hug or kiss you, or respond
enthusiastically to your affectionate overtures. According to
MensSpot.com, a drop in affection may mean that someone else is
dominating her thoughts.
She accuses you of cheating
A cheating girlfriend may try to deflect attention from herself by
going on the offensive. Sabrina Summerfield of YourMarriageAngel.com
says that if you have given her no reason to think that you’re cheating,
and yet she frequently accuses you of playing around, then she may be
the person who is unfaithful.
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